Another little trip west….27/6/2025

Back on the road again and first stop was Bristol… I wish we had found this site years ago, and I’m glad they keep pushing out the closing date as it is in such a great location.

We hadn’t appreciated what a coffee hub Bristol was, but it is fair to say that where in Ireland every second building has a bar in it, in Bristol it’s a coffee shop…and there are some good ones!

WIth nothing specific planned apart from catching up with Nick and Jeanette, we mooched around, explored further, ate cake, drank coffee and I even visited Bristol Uni’s swimming pool for a couple of ‘serious’ swims…. it is funny the type of person a swimming pool attracts, but Bristol Uni was definately one for ‘enthusiasts’… they weren’t hanging around, and I felt a little out of place having only just started back again.

A lovely few days and good to get in the pool again without causing too much discomfort!

So, to continure with the sharing and raising awareness of Osteoporosis, things are going ok, no, better than ok, they are going well, very well – slow, but sure… but I guess if we are in this for the long run, we need to try and get long term solutions and start thinking outside the box.

I’ve been working with a nutritionalist to ensure that I am eating the right things, at the right time to help put on weight… as although for some this may sound strange, but for me, weight gain is an issue – which in turn could have an impact on bone health. The slighter your frame, the more likely that you are to have issues as you get older especially.

The diet – or better said, what I have been eating – is balanced and appears to have all the nutrients, as well as calories that I should need, so I have been having a whole load of blood tests to understand whether my body is absorbing them. Time will tell, but we are on the right road and will just open the doors that we need to as they appear. The main change since I have been diagnosed with osteoporosis is to increase my already fairly high protein intake. It’s a scary fact that most people don’t get enough protein in their diets, I had been eating more than my recommended daily intake, but we have increased it even more to try and help. Generally, the older we get, this, along with fibre is lacking in our diets which in turn can lead to loss of muscle and other issues.

The other area that showed up on the initial blood tests was Vitamin D – which despite being March when the tests were taken, we assumed that of all people, our Vitamin D levels would be ok…. both of us were really low. We are always outside, rain or shine – so if our Vitamin D were low in March, I would be fairly confident that most peoples’ are. Neither Keith nor I showed any signs of being deficient – mood change, muscle weakness, aches, fatigue – but the bloods don’t lie, so I encourage everyone to think about taking a supplement over the winter months at least as it is something that all doctors recommend… we simply don’t get enough sun light in the UK, and when we do, we cover up with sunscreen… quite rightly!

After alot of consideration, I have currently decided not to take the recommended medication for the osteoporosis as it appears to have alot of possible side effects and the general consensus is that I should be able to do this by focussing on diet and exercise, with the help of HRT.

I had been considering HRT for a while anyway, and managing the symptons of the menapause naturally – however there is proven evidence to state that the HRT improves Bone Health and I have opted for Body Identical HRT…so hopefully minimalising the negatives.

Then, just to conclude, final piece of the picture will be exercise ….something that everyone knows has been a massive part of my life, and that I have had to adapt and change dramatically. The good news is that I am now back walking and cycling as before, and have now joined a gym, so when we are based back near Maidenhead I can go and use it for low impact cardio and core strength and it has been working out well, giving me some of those endorphines I was missing.

I have been seeing a physio to help with building core strength and have now also started to build in swimming into my routine. I am a front crawl swimmer so have started to build this up slowly, and as I have been told by the physio back stroke is good for you, I am now also trying to teach myself how to intersperse a few lengths into the routine.

So, watch this space as I will now be searching out swimming pools as we travel…who knows I may even go off piste and start doing some open water swimming!!

Moving on from Bristol, we travelled just 25 miles or so to Wells, where we had booked Woodlands CL which was roughly 5km outside the city, and possibly one of the most tranquil sites we have ever stayed.

We ventured out to stretch our legs after lunch, following the twisting lanes to Wookey Hole, then back through Wookey to Easton – beautiful rolling hills and greenery falling away around us… despite a huge film crew obviously taking advantage of Wookey hole as their set midweek. No idea how they all managed to disappear by 8am the following morning… but they left no trace behind them!

Wells is beautiful, and although we have been here before whilst living in Bath, it was nice to come back and see it whilst it wasn’t quite so busy… possibly something to do with the rain clouds looming that put people off the Saturday market!

We ventured in on the Saturday to check out the market, which was pretty poor unfortunately, but had planned to try out ‘The Good Earth’, a canteen style vegetarian cafe that reminded me of Cranks when I was growing up. Proper wholesome food, from soups through to Quiches, Pizza and Baked Potatoes as well as cakes and pudding.

As it was a bit wet on Saturday, we went back in on Sunday as well, and it was strangely nice to see that most of the shops were also closed on a Sunday…something that is quite rare nowadays.

Moving on from Wells, we set off to Taunton where we had booked FAWKS in to have a super loud alarm fitted, the same one as we had had previously on the old motorhome. The company has changed, with Ash and Nick – the two brothers – setting up a new entity called WattGuardz. Everything went smoothly and we even managed to find a couple of fantastic coffee shops in Taunton whilst we waited for the work to be done.

They finished on time at 16:30 as promised, and it was then another short hop, skip and a jump down the M5 and A38 to get back to Buckfastleigh, where we have stayed before at the Tea Plantation to go eat at Riverford Field Kitchen.

I ventured out in the morning to try out their LIDO…. although the temperature had dropped overnight and not only was it freezing in the pool, it was also pretty cold and windy when I got out. Quite obviously , I need a little more fat on my bones before I do that again!

Having warmed up, we walked over to Riverford Field kitchen for lunch, where once again, we had a selection of incredibly well balanced sharing plates, full of texture and flavour. A wonderful experience and ambience, no matter whether you are a meat eater or not.

Just one of those places that you could keep coming back to and each week they will have a different menu depending on what is in the garden…very clever, making the most of simple ingredients, providing wonderful flavour.

Although we have repeated a bit of ground from our penultimate trip, we just can’t help ourselves as this part of the country is so beautiful, the local produce is excellent, and once again, we have been very lucky with the weather.

Therefore, next stop had to be back to Exmouth where we found Matt and Jon again to catch up, walk, cycle, explore and naturally…. eat, what more can you ask for!

Last time we were here we spoke about some of the fantastic seafood restaurants, and although we were once again a bit of an unplanned last minute visitor, somehow Matt and Jon managed to get a table at the Rive Exe Cafe, quite a unique, seasonal restaurant that has featured on a few foodie programmes, and is therefore quite difficult to get a booking.

The weather was horrendous overnight and in the morning with torrential rain and storms, however thankfully it cleared up after lunch, and by the time we took the river boat accoss to the floating restaurant it was grey, but dry….and we’ll take that!

It isn’t all seafood, but we all opted for one kind of fish or another… including some pickled cockles to nibble on – which incidently were delicious, and to be tried again!

The food was delicious and not expensive, highly recommended if you can get a booking and don’t get seasick….you may even get to eat on the deck if the weather is slightly nicer.

On Friday we spent the day exploring the area a little more with Jake, Matt and Jon’s dog – who although dragged his heals a little when he realised just how much walking he was going to be doing – helped show us his local hood as we really have started to like this area and what it offers.

Then on Saturday, we jumped on the bikes and headed up to Topsham to explore and as it presented itself to us and looked so good, ended up eating delicious Gelato at Cocolato, well worth a visit if you are close by. It was then a short ride back to Darts Farm to re-stock our fridge and find even more local delicacies.

Matt and Jon had invited us over for a ‘light’ supper, although we aren’t sure Matt knows what ‘light’ means, but we’d be happy if he did it again as it was all delicious! I am not sure they realise, but they aren’t doing a very good job at putting us off the area at all, especially when Matt cooks up a flavoursome storm each time we visit!

Needless to say, once again we had exhausted our three night stay, and although we did contemplate going away for a few nights and coming back again, it just wasn’t going to work. So we said our goodbyes to Matt, Jon and Jake, and moved on to Bridport.

Once again, we booked to stay at the same Campsite and this time, had planned a trip to the other pub in Burton Bradstock, which had a reputation for its seafood specials.

We still both think that it is a fantastic location and another one of those ‘happy places’ due to the natural beauty surrounding it…..and I was able to make use of a local swimming pool which made me happy with a mix of cycling and walking!

A few lovely days of exploring… and more gelato in Westport, oh my – if you haven’t come across Baboo Gelato, you need to search it out. Keith and I both would agree that this is possibly the best double chocolate gelato that we have had outside Italy, and the Hazelnut was amazing too.

Leaving Bridport, once again it was just a short hop along the coast, taking in the stunningly beautiful scenery en route.

Leading us to our last stop of this little trip which was just outside Weymouth, where Keith had found a fantastic little campsite perched in the hills, with beautiful walking and just a short bike ride down into Weymouth…. where the locals were curious, but friendly.

As the local swimming pool did everything they could to make it difficult to go for a swim, I headed into Weymouth on the bike in the morning and took advantage of the tranquility first thing – as did a couple of enthusiastic swimmers. Possibly the best time of day to enjoy Weymouth beach… before anyone else gets there!

We had only booked for two nights, but had then tried unsuccessfully to extend our stay here, unfortunately the site was full. So we will have to come back to explore further and pay a couple of the local restaurants a visit as both ‘Catch’ and ‘Bennetts’ have caught our eye.

You may be wondering why there aren’t quite so many foodie photos this time, despite having been by the sea so much, we had planned to eat out in a wonderful cafe called ‘Soulshine’ in Bridport that we had found previously, but once again my body has decided to throw a curveball on me – whether it is due to the Menapause, or the trauma related to the fractures and Osteoporosis, I don’t know but I have found that I have become intolerent to some foods. Depsite trying to keep a food diary and work out what has been triggering the reaction, I haven’t been able to pin it down as we eat such a varied diet, so having been in so much pain I took the decision to pair it back and work my way through an elimination diet – something I can only describe as a complicated process, but I am glad I am doing it.

I was a little rubbish as I really didn’t want to remove all the food groups – especially as I am trying to gain, not lose weight, but I succombed to most, and started off with removing all Starchy Foods (which means all grains such as wheat, barley, couscous, spelt, rye, oats), Citrus, Nuts and Seeds, Nightshade Vegetables (such as tomatoes, aubergine, peppers, potatos and spices such as paprika, cayenne, etc.), Dairy, Fats (except Olive Oil), Spices and condiments (including mustard, mayonaise, etc), Sugar and Sweets and of course alcohol…..yep, just a bit dull to say the least!

So, I elected to still drink black coffee, eat legumes (lentils, beans, etc), as well as fish (both white and salmon), eggs and I was able to eat green and root veg and non citrus fruits (apple, bananas, apricots, etc), Quinoa, rice and buckwheat, and most herbs, salt and pepper. It was quite difficult to think of each meal to start, but I did a bit of batch cooking and between us, we soon got our heads round it… albeit that some of the food was a little ‘bland’ to say the least!

After 48 hours the inflammation and pain had started to die down, so I introduced the first food group… nuts and seeds – which at least gave a bit of texture and interest to my food, as well as giving me more good fats and energy. 48 hours later and all was good, so I introduced Oats on their own as we make a lovely ‘Daily Bread’ which, on the assumption this worked, would give me a good staple. Another 48 hours and all good. The following group was going to be dairy, but as we use Kefir in so much and I was concerned that this may be the ‘troublesome’ group, I decided to seperate it out, starting with just our home made kefir on its own. Bang….flared up again, huge disappointment. But I decided to park dairy for now completely as it is obviously a trigger, and move on.

I have since re-introduced citrus, nightshade – or at least some of them, and alcohol. Some have a small affect, but none have the same affect that dairy had and I can live with that for now. I have a few more days to go until I can start eating and drinking with confidence / knowledge as to what effect the foods will have which is a bit rubbish as today is my 50th, but I am still celebrating with a veritable feast on the BBQ with Monkfish, Seabass and Swordfish… and I can deal with that, if in the long term I feel better…. ready to take on the next 50 years with avengeance…. or maybe just 25 with good health!!

We have however a couple of new recipes to share that aren’t bland and do incorporate most ingredients that normal people would eat…
Tom Kerridge Cauliflower Quinoa
Gooey Peanut Butter and Jam Brownies

….and of course the map of where we have been, although not long now and we will be off again!

Adapting to change… 30/5/2025

It’s been just over two months since I last posted – apologies, but these last two months have been a bit of a journey and I wasn’t quite ready to share the events with everyone until I had got my head round it all and understood it as much as possible.

I am now ready though, and having been through the first few weeks of fear, I wanted to share my story to try and raise awareness – so I apologise in advance as this is a long post…. but there are lots of foodie photos at the bottom, so please feel free to scroll on by if you prefer…..

This is my story that I have shared with the Royal Osteoporosis Society as I feel that support wasn’t there for the ‘younger’ generation……

I am only 49, and I thought I was in my prime until October last year…. Running 5 miles six times a week, doing HIIT training, walking, cycling…you name it, the world was my oyster.  We opted out of the ‘normal’ life and moved into a motorhome in 2014 and have taken every day and made the most of it, searching out new and interesting places to travel to, both UK and abroad and cooking, eating and drinking local produce….every day brings something new for us and we have always embraced it, adapting and changing along the way depending on what was on our doorstep.

Back in October last year I got a running injury, so stopped running and switched to doing more HIIT.  Fairly soon afterwards, whilst doing a squat – something I have been doing for years – my back suddenly went and I was in a huge amount of pain.  It threw me, I wasn’t able to walk, cycle or anything… but just thought I had pulled a muscle and stopped the exercise but focussed on stretching.

It didn’t heal though, so after a couple of months I started visiting a Thai Masseuse whom I have visited previously, which although was hugely nauseating, also alleviated the pain a little but it soon came back 24 hours later.  After one visit, I then started to have a problem in the upper back along the thoracic nerve (bra strap level).  I stopped the Thai massage and spoke to the doctor who sent me to a physio who advised on more stretching… but the pain was still acute and not really going away.

A month later I went back to the doctor as things were still bad… my morale was low due to lack of exercise and pain.  I was once again referred to another physio – but this time I obviously had done something else as I had pain in the ribs which caused me breathing difficulties so quickly decided this really couldn’t go on and that I needed to get to the bottom of the problem.  This time, the doctor agreed.  I was sent for Xrays of the Thoracic spine which highlighted a compression fracture in the T7…. They didn’t do any Xrays of the Lumber spine.  The doctor was amazing and called me within 24 hours and set up a referral for a Dexa Scan as well as bloods. The bloods came back really quickly and highlighted that my Vitamin D levels were really low so I went on an emergency dosage for 7 weeks the following day, which I finished about a month ago.  However, as I knew the Dexa scan would take a while as the NHS is overloaded and I am lucky enough to have private health care, I chose to escalate and within two weeks I had had a Dexa, more Xrays and an MRI.  Within 12 hours of the XRays being completed the spinal surgeon called me and told me to get to the hospital ASAP and get a brace on…. I had also fractured my L4.

The prognosis was Osteoporosis…. And the compression fractures were now 5 months old …. I was living with the pain, thinking that they were muscle strain.  When I was told it was Osteoporosis at 49 years old my life fell apart……. That is something that 90 year olds get due to lack of weight bearing exercise and poor diet, surely?

Apparently not… but there isn’t much out there to tell you otherwise – even on the Royal Osteoporosis Society website.  My life was over as far as I was concerned as I couldn’t find any information that led me to believe that I would be able to live ‘normally’ again.  I dug and dug, asked friends, physios, contacts and spoke to people at the ROS and then the information started flowing…. And the light began to shine once more.

It’s not an easy thing to take on board, but with the appropriate information to support you, anything is surmountable.  I have an incredibly supportive husband and although he admits that I was in a very dark place for a couple of weeks… we have now come out the other side.

I would like to try and help raise awareness, letting people know that this happens to the best of us…. But life also still goes on.  I am very new to this and have yet to find out what the future has to offer me but I feel positive.  I have made new friends who are supportive within the different networks, and although I may not run 5 miles 6 x a week again, I will be able to swim, walk and possibly at some point, even run again.

I am only 49 and life isn’t over… I am in my prime and I want to ensure that anyone who is newly diagnosed or frustrated with this horrible illness doesn’t give up… life is here for living, so grasp it by the balls and live it…

Life has taken a turn for me and the last couple of months have been full of hospital appointments, scans, blood tests, more blood tests, and even more blood tests… but we are almost there, and have managed to squeeze in a couple of short trips away, lots of eating – well apparently I need to up the protein intake – and a bit of catching up with friends….

The first little trip away took us to Lincolnshire, first stop Grantham where stayed at Happy Trails CL which is a great new CL a couple of miles outside Grantham, with a lovely riverside walk and a national trust property close by…but the town itself wasn’t much to write home about although it was a good stop off before we headed back to an old haunt…. The Manor Campsite in Melbourne, where Hattie (the last motorhome) came from.

Melbourne is such a lovely little town with a plethora of fantastic eateries and loads of beautiful walking and we were really lucky as the weather was incredible.

We got the BBQ going and cooked outside, enjoying the beautiful rolling hills and views of the reservoir as well as walking over to meet Kevin and Petra in The Bulls Head, Wilson for a fantastic Sunday Lunch…. not only is Melbourne on our places to visit more frequently…. the pub is too!

Time flies pretty quickly though, and it wasn’t long before we had to leave the beautiful Derbyshire countryside behind us and head over to Thame, slightly closer to home.

We had wanted to bring the motorhome over to Thame for ages but all of the campsites are grass and its always been too wet when we thought about it… this time however we snuck a quick two night stop off at Lashlake Farm CL which is about 10 minute walk into Thame itself and incredibly tranquil.

Despite being market day, the market was a little underwhelming….although we did find a local honey producer, and the coffee shop and cake variety for such a small place was second to none! We had lunch at the Black Horse which was good and finally tried out a version of a ‘Dubai Chocolate’ in the form of a brownie… the pistachio nuts added a lovely crunch and mix, but it was still quite sweet – sorry no photos but it was huge!

Back home again for Easter and another few weeks gave us the opportunity to walk and eat closer to home.

The Bluebells were beautiful, and I haven’t ever seen Tulips like these with the serated edges – absolutely stunning and they appeared to last forever which was lovely.

One of our first foodie trips out was to catch up with a friend for a lazy Sunday lunch in Marlow, where we opted to go back to Sindhu which is located in the Complete Angler Hotel. It is such a stunning location as the restaurant overlooks the Weir, service is relaxed and the food is delicious. We all had the Tasting menu, which was delicately spiced but full of flavour… the only downside with a tasting menu is that when you get a plate that is exceptional, you find it is too small, as you just want more!!

We have also had a couple of meals over at Milaanj @ The Beehive, White Waltham and decided to go along to another evening that they had which was a collaboration with Chef Arbinder – a local private dining chef, who had previously been a masterchef semi-finalist…. the food was exceptional, albeit that the desert was too sweet for both of us.

It’s not all tasting menus though, and we both prefer ‘good homecooked food’ and would generally opt for ‘good pub grub’, it is just a situational thing that both of these have fallen in the last couple of months….and it would be rude not to try all the delicacies when they are offered up to you!

The next meal out therefore was a revisit to The Queens Head – better known as ‘Marlows Little Secret’. We hadn’t been for a couple of years, but rocked up on a Wednesday lunchtime and the sun was shining and the garden was already pretty full of people taking in a few rays and some good food. The food was as good as we remember and they even make their own ice-cream… another one to visit more frequently when we are nearby….and they were good chips, a proper crunch on the outside but still light and fluffy in the center.

Last week, we managed to escape again for a few days between appointments, this time along to Wiltshire with the first stop being just outside Malmesbury.

A lovely CL down a very long driveway, and even with the knowledge that we were going the right direction, I got a bit nervous towards the end when the Willow Trees were hanging low and the beautiful Mill buildings narrowed the road. It was however worth the drive as it was beyond tranquil when we arrived, with just birdsong to listen to.

The soft rolling hills were beautiful and the mix of arable and woodland gave a beautiful texture and colour to the views. We managed to get a few lovely walks in, and Malmesbury is a lovely little town with a small but well formed selection of shops… butchers, bakers, cafes and restaurants, and even had a decent Waitrose to stock up in!

Leaving Malmesbury on the Thursday, we headed to a site we had been to before – Church Farm CL in Stanton St Bernard – which is on the canal and about a mile from a pub, farmshop and cafe in one direction and a mile and a half from another pub and a community village shop in the other… perfect!

The weather had changed and it was a little grey and drizzly on a couple of the days but we made the most of it and headed up into the hills to see the White Horse, and a couple of different circular routes out into the fields and back along the canal. Beautifully tranquil location and conveniently placed for us to do a quick trip away to.

We had walked passed the Kings Arms in All Cannings last time we were here and decided to book as their menu looked interesting – Friday night was fish night and it didn’t disappoint! A lovely local pub, serving good home cooked food.

Back home for a week and we’ve managed to squeeze in a Samosa making class at Milaanj @ the Beehive along with lunch…. a great few hours and although we haven’t recreated them in the motorhome yet, we think it is going to be possible without a deep fat fryer so watch this space…. as they – along with the rest of the food we ate – were delicious!

There has been alot of cooking going on in the motorhome – as well as a good few BBQs, and a fair number of new recipes for you as well as its been a little while…
Red Lentil Curry – Dr Rupy
Smoky Mushroom Tempeh Burgers
Soda Bread – Paul Hollywoods version, and it works perfectly, unlike the last time I tried to make soda bread and it could have sunk the Titanic!!
Carrot Soup – Nadiya’s recipe
Cod and Carrot Curry – Nadiyas recipe
Thai Green Lentil and Hake Tray Bake
Herby Green Lentils with Pasta – Mob
Pea and Cottage Cheese Dip
Charlottes Dark Chocolate Mousse – dairy free, rich and creamy but deliciously light and fluffy

…and although we haven’t been far – the map